Conrad,
If you use the external (slave) SimVimLCD driver, you can use the pins A5,A6,A7on the slave board as PWM control for the backlight (you can see that when selecting the LCD slave table in the configurator).
These outputs are PWM signal that depend on the Bus1,2,3 voltage and when a bus you need is off the screens are off too.
Also, the first output is controlled by the Avionics Master. I'm going to remove the bus 3 and add something else.
Yes, it better to use additional driver for several displays.
Regarding the current consumption - you need to estimate it yourself, each display type can have different backlight current and the LEDs connected to the LED drivers may consume a lot of power when all them are in ON state.
https://realsimcontrol.com/simcom/index.php/4998/external-power
Vlad